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or the art of giving head by Mary Higgins Let's Look At The Blowjob Blowjobs.....a topic I have been confronted with may times. Do you really blow the cock.....not really. You suck it. Why on earth they call them blowjobs, (other than they blow their wad when you do it) is beyond me. There are a lot of techniques, but everyone is different. Some techniques work for some on not for others. Not all people enjoy sucking cock. Cock sucking is something you either like or don't like. The taste, the size, the hair, and then the sperm shooting into your throat if you do not pull out quick enough. But for people who do enjoy giving head, then here are just some ideas to improve your fun.
Before touching the penis, kiss and lick other parts of his body. His neck, nipples, stomach even his thighs before you even get to his cock. But before you devour his cock, hold it in your hand and squeeze it carefully feeling it pulsate. Then lick the shaft from his balls to the tip and back down. Doing this several times will get his cock twitching and rock hard. Next wrap your lips around the head of his cock and make it real wet. Lick the tip, and roll your tongue around it. Then go back licking the shaft. Once you are back at the tip, wrap your lips around the head again and slowly take his cock a little at a time in your mouth. All the time keep hold of the base of his cock and include rubbing his balls too. In fact if you want to drive him crazy, lick back down his shaft and start carefully licking and sucking on his balls. But do this carefully as the testicles are very sensitive and you can cause a lot of pain if squeezed too hard. Now back to the cock....working your mouth over the head and down the shaft. Slowly taking more of his cock in your mouth until you cannot handle anymore. All the time you are doing this, you should be sucking and licking making him take off to another planet. Holding onto his cock keeps you in control of the hardened shaft at all times. Increase your sucking and licking while working on him. If you are not too thrilled with the taste of pre-cum or sperm, pop a life-saver in your mouth before you start and this will ,ask the taste about 90%. At this point he is at your mercy and you can decide how far you want to go; cumming in your mouth, or cumming on your face or body or having him wait and cum in your pussy. One thing to be careful of is your teeth. You can cut or bite his cock while doing this and cause him pain....so watch out and not too much pressure. If his cock is a lot bigger than your mouth can handle, make it very wet and take what you can all the time sucking on it. The feeling to him can be just as enjoyable taking what you can in your mouth and licking and sucking the shaft and balls. Most important .....keep it wet....keep it hard....and remember the other parts of his body need stimulation too which makes the experience more enjoyable. There are many ways to give a blowjob......the guy standing with your partner on their knees, laying on your sides one with one sucking each other (female sucking cock, male sucking pussy or males sucking other males cock depending on your sexual preference) or the ever popular 69 position where one lays on top of the other reversed working on each others genitalia. No matter what sexes are performing the act, 69 is one of the easiest ways to please each other. Now the question arises, should I let him cum in my mouth or not? Well if we are talking about safe sex, and you and your partner really are active sexually with other people, then I would suggest wearing a condom before starting any activity on his cock. If we are talking about a monogamous couple that are actively healthy and getting checked periodically, then it is not too much of a problem.....but I am sure people will disagree with this. It is your preference and no one else's. So getting back to cumming (ejaculating) in the mouth. The taste of sperm is not the best thing in the world. It is sometimes tart, salty and bitter, but it is known that depending on what you eat in your diet, it might not be too bad. And if you take my advice earlier stated, try a Lifesaver as this will help kill the taste. But liking it is trying it and the best way is not to take it in the mouth the first time. Have him cum on your hand or stomach and lick it from there to get a sample. This way you are not getting a gallon of cum forced down your throat. Another precaution to take, is never suck on a cock after it has been in the anus. Besides not tasting too good, the bacteria in the anus is an open invitation to disease and infections. Deep throating is something that in time you could possibly do. Deep throating a cock is all based on control of the throat muscles. The best way to try it, it laying on your back on the bed, with your head over the edge of the bed. Trying it for the first time should be done alone as not to embarrass yourself if you gag or get sick. (gross) Try it with something easy like a carrot or small narrow dildo. Like anal sex, you have to learn to relax the muscles in the throat. Breathe out as you take it further down your throat. This helps to relax your muscles and make it slide in. But be sure the instrument you are going to use is well lubricated with saliva. Once you are relaxed enough and have some practice, you should be able to slide it down your throat without any problems. Performing this with a live cock is about the same, but the shooting cum is something added and sizes might vary. But one thing, you will not taste the cum as it shoots directly down the throat past the taste glands. Well here is enough to get you experimenting. Try this out and see what you like and don't like. It is up to the individual and their likes and dislikes. And remember....giving head is not for everyone. |
