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The one thing men adore is often the one thing women aren't sure they're

good at. So we asked guys to tell us what they like. Then we asked

girlfriends to share their techniques. Take a deep breath--

by Miranda Davis

from Redbook on HomeArts

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or the art of giving head

by Mary Higgins

Let's Look At The Blowjob

Blowjobs.....a topic I have been confronted with may times. Do you really blow the cock.....not really. You suck it. Why on earth they call them blowjobs, (other than they blow their wad when you do it) is beyond me. There are a lot of techniques, but everyone is different. Some techniques work for some on not for others.

Not all people enjoy sucking cock. Cock sucking is something you either like or don't like. The taste, the size, the hair, and then the sperm shooting into your throat if you do not pull out quick enough. But for people who do enjoy giving head, then here are just some ideas to improve your fun.

by Amanda670

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2 December 1995 from alt.sex.wizards

When my name was posted several weeks ago, I received a flurry of mail asking about deepthroating techniques. Some of you call me an authority, which is silly. I do not consider myself an authority and have never claimed to be one. I simply love oral sex and am willing to share my experience so that others might benefit.

Most of you are seeking some magic solution to overcome gagging and discomfort. By lying on your back, by applying some numbing agent or slick lubricant, by breathing differently, by self hypnosis, you hope to find an easy answer to what seems like such an insurmountable problem. But I don't think the answer lies in any special technique. I think the answer is emotional. If there is a secret to successful deepthroating, then it is the willingness to surrender.

by Elvis Little

Part One: Philosophy

What is the secret of the blowjob? Better to ask how to play the stock market, or why Michael and Lisa Marie, or how a just god could create a universe containing great suffering - the answers are simpler and require fewer ASCII-impossible illustrations. But having been on the giving and receiving end of a few blowjobs in my time, and understanding the importance of the question, I will give my answer.

The question has been asked as long as there have been words for the body parts involved, and it is still being asked because no satisfying answer has yet been given. True, sex manuals have been written with sections, chapters, volumes on the blowjob, but the facts of the matter as explained in these encyclopedias of technique only equip the reader to paint by numbers on a canvas where more artistry than this is necessary.

Religious texts have, when not completely hush-hush about the subject, tried to address the blowjob in spiritual, holistic terms. Unfortunately, the success of these methods usually requires a wholesale adherence to the full package of religious doctrines accompanying them, and so is useless (or worse than useless) to most of us.

So here is how to go about giving a great blow job. Believe me - it is worth learning how. It doesn't matter what setting you choose, you can be home in bed or parked on Sunset Boulevard, but seek whatever level of privacy you need to feel relaxes and sexy. Remember that setting has a lot to do with the act itself. If you are on a cross-country drive, this is a wonderful way to make those miles go by faster. Just remember that there are lots of different settings to choose from. Almost every man has a fantasy of getting sucked in full view of strangers. But you don't need a fantastic setting. For this article, lets just assume you are at your home, with your man on the couch.

LESSON ONE

I am not sure if it was because I grew up in a household with brothers or whether I would have had the same feelings and inclinations had I been an only child but I do know that from the time of my earliest memories I have been fascinated with penii.

Let's talk about the "basic penis." I regard oral sex as the highest form of expression of love that can be exchanged between two people. Hopefully this information will help you to break down any barriers which you might have that would prevent you from expressing your love in this way and from receiving a reciprocation from your male companion.

First things first. LOOK at the cock. I do not mean a cursory glance not a hurried, surreptitious examination. Take enough time that you convince your companion that some kind of treat is in store for him provided he will allow you to do with him, and particularly with his cock, exactly what you want.